David and I are back together. He has sought a transfer to another Congregation after Daisy outed him in the hospital.
He is renting another house and has the house and all his property rented through the realtor who will take care of the taxes, insurance and repairs. He is not going to receive any money for rental. This was the money I had been allowed to use to help Daisy. He has decided that no funds of from him will go to her directly or indirectly.
If he finds another congregation in another state that will accept him as pastor we will be moving. He has his retirement from the army, the railroad and Social Security. His devotion to the ministry is sincere as he does not take a salary.
He left yesterday and came back today so the grand-kids could come over for the night. I was definitely different. The kids wondered where Pap was and why he didn't make the breakfast. Since he didn't make breakfast they wouldn't eat.
If he has refused to return to the wife led home, I would beat his butt for his behavior.
Hi boys and girls, men and women,
I will get a spanking next week and I´d like to make a video of it, but I don´t know how the spanking should be?
Any ideas? Please post it here, I´m open for your ideas!
Hey Jungs und Mädels, Frauen und Männer,
nächste Woche werde ich den Hintern versohlt bekommen und ich möchte ein Video davon machen, aber ich weiß noch nicht wie das Spanking ablaufen soll..
Habt ihr irgendwelche Ideen oder Vorschläge? WEnn ja, bitte hier posten, ich bin offen für eure Ideen :)
Today is a good day! :-)
Woke up and had coffee, felt refreshed despite my old body that screams of pain from the hard physical work of the past 20 years.
The sun is shining, I have more coffee at home, I'm alive, I hear birds singing, I hear some kids play in the yard, so I decided that this would be a good day and now 4 hours later it is so!
To walk in the sun and drinking coffee out of a thermos mug is great! What a luxury! :-)
Wish you all a good day and lots of love!
How many of you have this problem? I do. It's not something I'm proud of or happy about. Much like eating too much it's a nasty bad habit I have to stop. I know it's wrong. But I do it without thinking and before I realize I need to stop it's too late. Ugh. I need help :(
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My very vanilla wife and I were looking at my phone at breakfast this morning as we usually do while completing the NY Times mini crossword together. I hit the back button one time too many, however, and GUESS WHICH WEB SITE POPPED UP!! (Sorry, Honey.) Yes, dear, I do love a good spanking video.
Someone in boxed me this question, so here is my stance on being a disciplinarian, and beliefs. First I would like to say I am flattered that you value my opinion, on this topic…thank you ;)
1. My beliefs are the following…. Never fake it! Don’t pretend to be something that you are not! If you are dealing with a real spanko, trust they will be able to spot a vanilla immediately!
2. Be Attentive to your spankee’s needs
3. Be consistent, real spankos hate a disciplinarian, who is not consistent to their spanking needs, makes it seem like you don’t care, and may possibly be a vanilla
4. Be caring! Don’t beat your spankee like a slave! This is not about how hard you hit, but more so getting your point across, so keep that in mind next time your trying to tear a new ass!
5. Be fair-don’t spank someone without hearing them out.
6. Be Understanding—you have to be understanding with your spankee, and always make sure they understand why they are getting disciplined!
7. Always pay attention to your spankee’s body language, which can tell you a lot, if they really had enough, what implements seem most effective, why they are behaving the way they do, if they need more spanks! So watch the body language. If your spanking some1 for example otk style and u tell them after the spanking u can get up now, and they are hesitant, or don’t move at all, trust your job is not done! Please continue!
8. Good disciplinarians know the importance of after-care-if your disciplinarian cares about the integrity of your skin, and how you are feeling, or how he or she is coming across to you, they will understand the importance of after-care. In my opinion spankers that really care, will make sure you get after-care. Most spankee’s want to feel secure, and loved and showing concern for their pain and feelings shows that you are a compassionate disciplinarian.
9. Find out what type of spankee you have, pain tolerance levels etc., because every spankee is different. Don’t spank Tisha, how u spank eve…. feel me? Some spankee’s might only require an otk with your hand, and others a belting with their panties down! So make sure u know what kind of spankee your dealing with
10. Never spank when angry-give yourself a chance to calm down, and put the spankee on a time-out to give them a chance to think about what brought them to this point! Reflection is good for both spanker and spankee
11. Be trust-worthy!
12. Make sure u always keep your word cuz I feel if your word aint shit, neither are you! Don’t be a liar, that is the worst thing to be when you’re a disciplinarian, or anywhere else!
13. A good scolding or lecture before, during and after a spanking helps bring the point home a lot faster, without it the spankee may feel their lesson was in-complete, I think real disciplinarians know the importance of hearing your spanker lecture you!
P.S THIS LAST RULE IS VERY IMPORTANT, MAKE SURE WHEN YOU ARE DISCIPLINING SOMEONE THAT IT IS ALWAYS CONSENTUAL, MEANING you have their permission to discipline them, because if they say no, and you do it anyway, you could get in serious trouble, so be careful make sure they agree, or you have something in writing if this is not a partner or girlfriend/boyfriend, just cover your ass! o pun intended...lol be careful !!!!!
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I was at a family event last weekend. It was not fun because of one particular family member. She wouldn't accept that I didn't want to talk to her or that I didn't want to listen to what she had to say. I walked away, I spoke to other family members but she would always insert herself into the conversation and start verbally going after me about things that hadn't happened. I tried hard to avoid her but she was like an annoying fly that wouldn't leave me alone. After about half an hour of her constantly bugging me I made the stupid decision to drink. I don't think it would have been too stupid of a decision except that I knew drinking wasn't a good idea because of a couple of health conditions and medications that I take and the fact that I was very drunk by the end of the event.
I'm very sorry about making the stupid decision to drink. I knew it was not the best option and I knew I would get into trouble because of it. I'm very sorry.
this weekend is the first in forever that we haven't had some family function to go to so I should be able to stay home n relax BUT I have 4 lil girls who wanna spend the night on Friday.. one 11 yr old, her 8 yr old cousin, and another 8 yr old cousin with her 2 yr old sister.. they will probably arrive around 330pm on Fri... the two sisters will leave about noon-1pm on Sat n I know they said they wanna bake some bread so we have to squeeze that in sometime... the other two will leave sometimes around 3-4pm... then around 5 pm one of my daughters is comin to visit with her 3 boys ( 9, 5, 4) n her 1 yr old daughter and the boys have informed me they wanna make rice krispie bars AND peanut butter balls lol.. so we will be busy for sure... I cant wait.. :)...PS AND Poppy n I might just get in some phone time too ..
I've only posted one video so far but I'm looking for feedback on what my friends want to see in the videos. What to wear, (I have a large wardrobe of shorts and underwear that I can post a picture of) what to use (So far I only have a leather paddle but will be buying a wooden one very soon) and how to punish my naughty bottom. Thanks ;)
PS-Basically wanting to give myself instructed spankings. If you have a request inbox me or comment below. Spanking also turns me on very much so if anyone wants/suggests stroking or any other related demonstrations feel free to let me know. I love creativity.
To everyone who added me with all the sweet messages. I didn't reply... what a jerk.... Sorry! I forgot that you couldn't go back and see who all sent them once you hit add... so I couldn't message you all individually and respond to your comments.
Wanna chat? I'm friendly. Most of the time. Send me a PM and i'll reply :D
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