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When I visit the site on my iPad, and I try to play a video, it gives the option to share or imbed the video. Has anyone else had this problem or know the solution?
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Views: 892 · Added: 1228 days ago
...if a spankee wants more, is it right for he/she to ask the spanker?
Part of the lag was due to illness but even then there were a few times I wanted Mr. B to do it. Twice I carried his favourite implements "just in case" to no avail. That was direct as I could be in terms of asking. Which made me wonder if it was right to ask outright. It feels wrong because that's asking for something vs. surrendering to him (which is part of the eroticism behind it).
What do those spankers think when you're asked to spank? Is it a turn on/off?
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Views: 793 · Added: 1228 days ago
Me and my boyfriend at the time were laying in bed watching tv. He walked into the kitchen and we were joking around and I looked on the tv and there was something that said "shut up little man" so i repeated that to him just joking around reading off the names of the movies and he thought i said it to him which i kind of did and kind of didn't ;) . Well he goes your not gonna get away with that one. So he comes out of the kitchen and walks towards me to grab me but of course i wiggle away. So i'm telling him to look around in the room to see if he could find where it said that on the tv cause he has no clue at this time the title is on the tv. So he finally grabs me after 2 mins and smacks me around 8 times before i squirm off his lap then he slaps me one more time and goes "next time be careful what you read on the tv". That was the first time he had ever punished me for saying something he did not like it was a nice feeling but also did not feel to good :)
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I am friends with a girl that likes age play and every now and then I will tell her a bedtime story, before she gose to bed. I would like to share one of them with everyone. Let me know what you think and if I should post more.
The Priness and the sling-shot
Once there was a naughty little princess who loved doing bad things, one of her fav things to do would be to take out her sling-shot and shoot the gardeners in the butt as they bent over to work on the gardens. One day the head gardener got so mad that he picked her up and took her to the king. After he told him every thing she did, she know what was coming she went to her daddy layed across his lap and lifted her dess and lowerd her underwear. He gave her a good long bare bottom spanking and after called for her hairbrush. then he told her to sit on his lap. (Now look the next time I have to punish you I will use this.) she noded and started sobbing. then he told her to sand in the corner for timeout. After a little bit the king called her back over to sit on his lap and asked her you know why I did that right? As she says yes sir cuz you want me to be a good girl. Thats right said the king and then he huged her and sent her to bed.
let me know what you think
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This girl sent this pic to my phone. For now her name is Andrea. She has never had a real spanking from anyone before. She is used to playful slaps on the ass occasionally. But as far a real bare bottom spanking, she has never experienced that.
You wanna know the funny part? I never gave a spanking to anyone. EVER So I am asking you my friends, as a rookie how do I handle this without actually doing major damage but I want her satisfied? How would you guys spank her?
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I can now go back to sitting normally. But my mouth is still the same I understand that it is disrespectful to cuss and get unnecessary attitudes here and their. But It is just a bad habit for me. I've always been like this never been the type of person that likes to be told what to do talked to crazy or tolerates someone taking advantage of them. So I guess I will have to learn the hard way in the end.
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...and that is a nice thing in itself....but on top of that....The Swedish word for "Comming to an end" is "ända" and it also means the buttocks! :) Always fun, a bit childish but I give you that for free!
I will never work this much again, it takes the fun away from the work and everthing else...during only the last 8 days me and my crew have put in over 120 work hours each....1 more day to go and the we are finished...done...I will have a beer or two tomorrow :)
You know that idea of a spanking inn i have......that have really been a nice thing to reflect on while working my ass of in the summerheat...that and the thought of a special lady who is in great need of a strict hairbrushing and a good old strapping :)
Do not stop loving each other!
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Wow, I remember thinking; two hours ago my life was humdrum and boring. Now it would appear, I was a disciplinarian.
At twenty-five past even the following evening, the doorbell rang. Annie was not going to keep me waiting it would appear, which was a shame in a way, because it might have presented an excuse to up the ante as it were. As it happened, the ante didn’t need raising because Annie would do it for me.
I opened the door to see her standing there. She looked as attractive as ever, wearing a blue floral summer dress; the evening sunlight showing her off to best advantage. My heart nearly burst when I saw that she was carrying a long thin cane with a curved handle and an old worn-out plimsoll. She must have walked the couple of miles from her house with them in her hand, as she had no car. Annie had not bothered to learn to drive even. Was this an exercise in penitence I wondered?
“Come in Annie,” I greeted her. “What is that you have brought?
Yes – what a dumb question, but I didn’t know what else to say! However she obviously understood my quandary.
“It’s Geoff’s cane and one of Sophie’s old school slippers,” she explained. “I thought it best that you have them. I won’t be using them myself and I thought that they will be of far more use to you.”
“Will they?” I asked. I almost asked her why, but even I wasn’t dumb or obtuse enough to misunderstand the implications of what she was saying.
“Yes Jim. You are going to need them quite a lot, beginning with this evening. I should have asked you for this a long time ago. I don’t enjoy being punished; I dislike the pain and the shame, but sometimes these things are necessary. Sophie has been slippered and you really did a job on her; things have been much better between us since you brought her home last night. But now I feel so guilty.”
“She told you what happened?
“She did more than that Jim, she showed me the marks. I didn’t ask her to, she just did it. She asked me to forgive her and wanted me to know she was really sorry. I was touched Jim, truly I was. We haven’t been that close since…. Well anyway, I gave her a hug and we sat together chatting all evening. It was lovely.”
There was an awkward pause while I absorbed the substance of what Annie was telling me. I now had the rather pleasant prospect of, having slippered the daughter, bestowing the same attention upon the mother, but I didn’t want to rush things. As it happened it wasn’t going to be a problem. The process flowed naturally.
“Come into the lounge then Annie,” I said. “I guess we will be more comfortable there.”
She smiled. “It isn’t comfort that I am looking for Jim.”
“No quite,” I smiled back. “Do you think we can dispense with the lecture? It seems to me that we have covered all of the basic reasons for you being here. Perhaps we should just get on with it?”
“Yes I think so too Jim,” she nodded, handing me the cane and slipper.
With that she put her hand up behind her back and pulled down the zipper of her dress, let it fall down over her bosom. She pushed it down and stepped out, revealing a full length white slip. Folding the dress neatly, she placed it carefully on an armchair and slipped her shoes off. After that, she opened her handbag, taking out two lengths of nylon cord. After handing them to me, she offered her arms with the wrists crossed; clearly intending for me to tie them together.
This was totally unexpected. I had thought that perhaps I would just have her bend over the chair and lift her skirts up for the caning; I hadn’t even given a thought to having her strip to her underwear, let alone be restrained.
“Is this really necessary?” I asked unsure of myself.
She nodded. “It’s how Geoff and I used to do it. If my hands are tied in front of me, I can’t put them round behind to interfere. He liked to see me in my slip too. It was kind of an obedience thing; made me look and feel submissive to his control. I liked that. I always wanted to please him. You have to tie my ankles together too, in order to prevent me from kicking, and put handkerchief in my mouth, so you can’t hear me crying out. I don’t take the pain very well so it’s better this way. You must not hold back; promise me.”
It was so matter-of -fact the way she put it, as though it were the most natural thing in the world. But the truth was that I was coming to view my late brother in an altogether different light. Not necessarily a bad light, but a luminescence of which I hadn’t had the slightest inkling until that moment.
“Okay Annie,” I promised. “If that is what you want?”
She nodded in reply.
Annie did not allow me too much time to reflect upon these things. Having had her wrists tied together, she looked around the room enquiringly.
“Where do you want me?” she asked. “Would over the arm of the sofa be convenient? I would rather not have to lean on something hard; if I could just have a cushion to rest on….”
“The arm of the sofa will be fine,” I said, putting one of the velour cushions in place for her. When she had taken position, I tied her ankles together and lifted the lacy hem of her slip to reveal matching pair of white, silky french knickers. She was wearing a white garter belt with tan stockings that almost reached the top of her creamy thighs. I found myself admiring the two or three inches of naked flesh that presented to me, between the coverage of the two garments.
“I will just go and get a handkerchief,” I said. “Are absolutely you sure you want to be gagged?”
“Absolutely,” she nodded firmly. “I don’t enjoy being punished and it will help dull my screams. We don’t want the neighbours hearing and calling the police.”
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Views: 491 · Added: 1228 days ago
Anybody no a good site for finding spanking partners?
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What sort of man do I consider to be a "Good" disciplinarian. Off course every boy has some different things they look for, so Here is mine. Apperance? well I do expect the man to b clean and he must be totally dressed (a suite is my favorite) but other than that just no extemes but he need not look like a magazine cover to be a good strict man of discipline.
I have always thought of him to be an "older" man. Off course when I was 21 just about every man WAS an older man...34 was an older man...lol. Now at 50...my ideal is a man in his 70's.(and no gentleman is TO old...as long he can do the job at hand) However now 50, I see that the "Attitude" is most important. Off course a man 35 can't be "dad" to me but he can be my boss, a judge (I bet a trip over the knee of Judge alex would be no fun) but again the Attitude that a spanking has been earned and is needed to hopefully teach me what TO do or Not to do, BUTT at very least WILL make me very sorry.
I never knew the term "safe word" till about 1997 I guess.....up till then all spanking arrangments were the same as I when I was a lad growing up..the spanking was OVER when the spanker said so. YES it hurts, Yes I want it to stop..but that is not the boy's to decide...off course this is harder if it is not an on going situation but if I am asked "can you take more"..."is it to hard"... "do you want a break"...well...that's not discipline.
I also should say this is not sexual for me. I have no desire to have sex after I have been spanked. This is the biggest thing I find different between meeting men in the 80's and early 90's and then after the intneret age. I can't explain to you why it is not sexual for me (yes it makes my penis hard to think about) but after I have been spanked I have NO desire to do anything sexual, I want to go be alone and cry it out (and yes, I will masterabate at some point maybe a day or so after)
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With that she went upstairs into the guest room and re-emerged a few minutes later with her suitcases. She was still wearing her uniform. We drove the couple of miles back to her home in contemplative silence.
Upon reaching her house, I carried Sophie’s bags up to the house and before we reached the front door, it opened, and there stood a tearful Annie who rushed to greet her errant daughter with a hug. I thought I saw Sophie wince, possibly not from the warmth and enthusiasm of the greeting, but more from the results of her slippering, less than an hour previously.
After the reconciliatory platitudes, Sophie took her bags and went to her room leaving me face to face with Annie. She was a shortish woman of perhaps five feet three inches tall, and at the time we are speaking of she was in her mid thirties. Her hair was brown like Sophie’s but it was elegantly styled in soft sweeping waves. She was not exactly thin but she wasn’t carrying any excess fat either. She always had a habit of looking good, and today she was wearing a knee-length biscuit coloured skirt and a cream short sleeved blouse, which showed off her curves very nicely.
“Jim,” she said. “What can I say? I am so sorry that we have caused you so much trouble. I have been having a lot of problems with Sophie of late and I don’t quite know how to handle it. It seems that everything I do she rebels against. I am at my wit’s end. If only Geoff were here, he would have taken his cane to her and everything would have been alright. I wish I could do it myself but somehow I don’t seem to have any influence with her anymore. I never had to do it because Geoff took care of all that kind of stuff. He would probably have caned me, if he were here today, for being so weak.”
I nodded and listened. I couldn't have been easy for her, but there was something I had to say.
“Listen Annie, I need to talk to you. Don’t worry about punishing Sophie because I have taken care of that, and I have told her in no uncertain terms that she has to behave from now on or she will have me to deal with. However, I need to tell you that, although I ended up punishing her very severely, part of the reason for her bad behaviour is you. You need to recognise that she is growing up and she has to be allowed to flex her wings. I punished her,and she is nursing a very sore bottom as we speak, but it wasn’t all her fault. You understand what I am saying don't you?”
I wasn’t sure what the reaction would be, but it seemed as though a weight had been lifted from her shoulders.
“I know Jim,” she said softly. “I have been sat here thinking about it while I was waiting for you to bring her back. I can’t help being concerned about her after what happened to Geoff, but you are right. I am equally to blame and I feel terrible that you have punished her for it, when I was equally guilty. Is there anything you can suggest that will make up for it?”
Was she asking what I thought she was? It seemed so.
“You mean punish you as well?” I asked boldly.
She nodded. “It seems fair. Did you cane her?”
“I gave her the slipper, but it was pretty harsh. It was necessary to teach her a lesson. She will have a warm bottom for a few days I fear.”
Annie was looking directly into my eyes.
“Then you must beat me too; it’s only fair, only please could you do it in private, so that she doesn’t know about it? I don’t feel that I could face her if she did”
I considered the proposition and agreed. What else could I do?
“Come round to see me after work tomorrow evening,” I said. “Can you be there at half past seven?”
“Yes,” she replied. “I will be there. Thank you Jim; I really appreciate this.”
Does she, I thought to myself with heart skipping beats? Not half as much as I do!
“Okay Annie,” I said smiling understandingly. “I will see you tomorrow evening then. Don’t be late.”
She smiled back and shook her head. “No, don’t worry, I won’t be late.”
She stayed at the front door while I got into my car and drove away. In the rear view mirror I saw her disappear inside the house and close the door.
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Views: 826 · Added: 1230 days ago
Well the first half of my spanking is now uploaded and on my page ill be putting the other half up later on it took like three hrs just to upload that video. But check it out and tell me what u think. Thanks.
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Views: 614 · Added: 1230 days ago
Even tho i messed up the other day and earned a spanking when i find someone. I Have accutly Been craveing a spanking for MONTHS! Dose anyone else crave spankings? Crave the sting the heat the butterflys in the tummy?. What about spankers when you dont give a spanking for a bit do you crave the feel of a bare bottom benth your fast falling palm? and the heat from the bottom as it lays across your knees? I know as a switch i crave all of that from being spanked to getting a spanking LOL.
Love ya All
Views: 1022 · Added: 1231 days ago
About 11 weeks pregnant and just started to feel a lot better but my hormones are really kicking in and i like to snap on my fiance a lot. He has never actually punished me before because I really am a sweet girl I just act out sometimes but I know that day will come im scared but also excited to be really disciplined for a long time. But yesterday I was standing in the living room and he told me to come to him but I didn't so he asked me one more time and I said no so he said if you don't come to me i will come get you I of course ignored him again so he came up behind me and laid a huge smack on my butt looked at it afterwards and it was a full handprint. So then he joked about something else and said he was gonna spank me again and I literally snapped at him and he does not like when I do that so he goes "wow did you really snap at me you need to get up" and of course my stubborn self didn't listen so he lifted me up off the ground and stood me up and turned me around and laid 6 smacks on my bottom afterwards he grabbed me and held me in his arms it really didn't hurt that bad but it was a wonderful feeling to know how much he cares about me and does it because he loves me.
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We have been discussing this for a while and have decided that it was time for the little lady to be put in her place outside of her comfort zone. We are looking for a female top in the NYC area. Please contact me through this site or through my email address email@example.com and we can open a dialogue and see if something can be arranged.
If you are a male please do not reply. We are not interested and will not consider nor reply.
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Views: 844 · Added: 1231 days ago
So the other day i went out with friend after Hardly any sleep witch was enough to get me Punished by my girl with a selfspanking In its self. But the big thing i did..... I Smoked after almost 6 months smoke free :( BIG MISTAKE My Gf Really hates Smokeing so Much so that she is considering telling me to find someone to give me a real spanking as she thinks a selfspanking is Not enough this Time as SMOKEING And DRINKING Are MY BIG BIG BIG No nos With her. and it pains me to admit it but she is right i think i need to be spanked for real shame its so hard to find a Spanker my Gf says she would prefer it was a female just becuse she Knows i am a bit weary of Male spankers NOTHING Agiasnt Men spanking Men just i have had bad Exprinces in my early years in the Lifestyle so still a littel Untrusting on another man spanking me. I Accutly am accepting this i am not moaning or complaineing if it sounds Like i am i really am Not I BLEEPed Up Big time with this and i was doing so good. Not sleeping and leting some personal stuff affect me when i should have just talked to her or my friends insted of botteling it up. Anyway now the HUNT Is on for someone to Tan my Backside.
Love ya all
Views: 2726 · Added: 1232 days ago
Does anyone else really like getting spanked or seeing a girl get spanked wearing a thong?
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Imagine there is a housing development that only spankos could live. There is a gate in front of the community so no outsiders could come in unless invited. Each house has a big bay window in front of there house. So if someone gets spanked outside in there yard no one would care. Or get the cops called on them. Now there are rules in the community that everyone must abide by. Give me some of the rules you would like to see in your little spanking community. Here is one of mine.
When a spanking occurs they must get spanked in front of the bay window for all to see. (if there out and about)
That's mine so what are yours?
I know we have some good imaginative spankos out there.
Or would you even consider living in such a comunity?
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Views: 1628 · Added: 1232 days ago
After a slight slump, I'm back in the saddle. A young lady named Joy (37) contacted me about 3 weeks ago and we met at a local restaurant, where I bought her 2 daquiris and had a ginger ale for myself. We talked about life, spanking, work, and the fact that she was separated. This raises a flag for me--niot the "married RED flag", but still, it gives me pause. We chatted by e-mail about 5 more times, and even set up one session, but that one fell through. But today, she was free for the morning, so I got a suite at a local hotel and we met there. Joyi s unlike any girl I've spanked yet. First, she's a big girl. Not BIG, as in as big as me, but ROUNDER than me. A lot rounder. Let's say that when her panties came down, there was a lot to cover, and all of it was prime. Like most guys (and girls), I have a body type that I like, but when it comes to spanking, I believe the Declaration of Independence had it right--every woman of age has the right to life liberty and a good hard spanking, whenever she feels like it. And I'm more than happy to administer them. The most difi=ficult ones are the lollipops--those girls built like movie stars with big heads, skeletal bodies and no caboose at all. Now I like a tomboy-ish body--muscular, strong legs/arms, and voluptuous girls hold a warm place in my heart as well. And everything in between. So, I started Joy off with a paddle, because she said she was used to being spanked aboput once a week or more. It so happened though, that she had too, been in a slump, and was more tender than she thought. So after 10 major swats from the bog paddle, we dropped back and ised a hairbrush, wooden spoon, ruler--some smaller implements. Joy was pretty stoic--she grunted a few times, but I think she was nervous, this being our first meeting. But she was very red when it weas over, asnd I was able to keep the marks off her legs (she's a swimmer and didn't want to explain stripemarks showing). So, she checked herself out in the full length mirror, declared it a job well done, and gave me a hug and her camera. I''m a lousy photographer, but was able to get a good picture of ber blistered backside on the first try. She said shje would call as soon as the marks fade, which shouldn't be long--there was only one small bruise on a sit spot, but that shade of red was quite deep.
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