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Types of punishments I just thought i would say a few words on the type of punishments we use in our Domestic Discipline relationship. SirDD is always fair and the most important thing is that he never ever punishes in anger. As we all know spanking is one of the main punishments but there are others that can be used ( as we do) just as much, they are as follows:
1) Lines- This is used mainly for forgetfulness, not keeping to chores list, swearing.
2) Spanking- Used mainly for bratty behaviour, talking back and disrespect ie raising voice.
3) Corner time- Again used for talking back or not listening.
4) Bedroom time- Continued forgetfulness or really, really upsetting SirDD, to think about my actions.
5) Essays- These are used for apoloigising to SirDD for my behaviour. Those are the 5 punishments we use mainly. I am yet to be grounded ( which is an option) or have any priviledges taken away from me, tv, pc etc.
These work really well for us and have not really changed since we started Domestic Discipline. I hate lines and corner time the most........although having said that i hate them all!!!! That after all is the whole point!!!! Princess x
Please take a look at our website http://www.myddlife.com for those into Domestic Discipline.
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My Name is Spinner..Real name Glenn Jones.. I'm a Freelance HIV outreach worker. I'm a husband, father, grandfather. I'm a sexual assault survivor. I like to write stories, talk to a hundred people a day. I have a great passion for life. I believe in God and Jesus Christ. I do not judge anyone or their beliefs. In my heart the name of the game is get the message out about HIV, SDI's and all the danger surrounding these infections in any way, shape or form, to think outside the box! The outreach work I have done and still do has always been pure at heart and full of passion inspired by Grace. I challenge all of you to keep your torch on fire and your passion burning. To make this world a better place.....
Along the way in my adventures I picked up the art of male to male paddling. No sex in the mix ever.
Curious or been there before walk with me, talk story no harm/ no foul and see if that innate gratification in falling from grace will work for us both. "A good ass-whooping never hurt nobody" and that is what I'm offering. I'm the grandfather type with compassion; that's the ticket for a “warming of your butt” you'll remember. Board shorts off or on makes no difference, restrained or not and limits discussed before hand so to speak One thing is a for-sure .. Men...listen up..... If your single and having SEX use CONDOMS NO JOKE I'm sick and tired of watching young men having children out of wedlock, getting sick and worse yet getting exposed to HIV. I have no qualms of burning your rear with my paddle or razor strop to help you REMEMBER the "USE CONDOMS" message!
Glenn/ Spinner HIV Activist USA
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The Great White Pine
They had packed the car the night before and were heading out early this Saturday morning for the long drive to their cabin in the Adirondacks where they'd spend the next week. It was a nice little place on a river, not much but you don't really need much. They stopped for a late breakfast just to break up the ride and arrived at the cabin by noon. After opening all the windows and putting out some porch furniture they headed for the river, very cold even in August. He dove in off the dock, "You have to do it fast. Get it over with." She inched in as usual covered in goosebumps.
After a swim, they took the canoe about a half mile down river to check in with the Connelly's, an older couple who stayed there all summer. He's brought some downstate newspapers for Mr. Connelly and the kind of pipe tobacco he liked. She brought Mrs. Connelly some bath salts and lotions. They visited a while, caught up with the news over lemonade and headed back. When he'd built the cabin he'd brought in a couple of truckloads of sand so they had a nice little "beach" to bask in the sun.
By late afternoon when the sun disappears behind the mountain it starts to get cool. He built a fire in the fireplace and they threw a couple of burgers and vegetables on the grill for dinner and lingered over wine looking forward to the week ahead. After a quick clean up, they grabbed their sweaters and went back down to the river to sit by a fire pit and drink in the night. The nights are especially beautiful when you get away from the cities and it was just the two of them in their little place cut out of the pine woods.
The sky was inky black and filled with of millions of stars. They found the the Big and Little Dippers and the Northern Cross before settling into a comfortable silence staring at the fire. There is something very primitive about sitting around a fire at night. You want to spin a yarn, brag about the one that got away or draw everyone closer with a tale of horror in the woods .
"Have you ever heard of "Karandawan"?"
"It's one of those cryptozoology things?"
"No, no, it's an Indian legend. It's the word for, "Great White Pine." Eastern white pines grow all around this area but one tree would figure large in the history of the Indian nations of New York. It happened thousands of years ago when the Five Nations were always at war: The Mohawk, Oneida, Onondaga, Cayuga and Seneca.
They settled in to explore a local legend. "According to the story, a man came along whose name was, 'Peacemaker.' It was his dream to end the constant warring so all could live in peace. He decided to go on a journey to find a way to bring the Five Nations together. He built a canoe out of large white stones and set out on his quest. All the people of his village saw him off and were amazed because they had never seen stones float before.
"Along the way, Peacemaker had a vision of a white pine that reached into the sky and held key to a lasting peace. He traveling many days and many miles before he came upon a white pine that stood majestic among all the others. This surely was the 'Great White Pine' of his vision, the 'Tree of Peace.' He gathered the leaders of the Five Nations under its branches and spoke of a peace that would benefit all their people. Together the leaders agreed to end their warring and live together in harmony. As a symbol of their peace accord, all five buried their weapons under the branches of Great White Pine. That was the beginning, when the Five Nations united and became the great Iroquois Confederacy.
"The legend also tells of four large, white roots which grew from the Great White Pine and extended long distances north, south, east and west. Anyone who sought peace could follow a root back to the Tree of Peace and find shelter under its branches. They would be welcomed to live with the Iroquois people. The Tuscarora from the south did just that.
"When the white settlers drove the Tuscarora off their land in the Carolinas in the early 18th century, legend tells of their following a large, white root north to find the Great White Pine. As promised, they were welcomed by the Iroquois and the Tuscarora became the sixth Nation of the Iroquois Confederacy. The Great White Pine has always been an important symbol of peace woven into the Iroquois culture which continues to this day. A white pine is stamped on the Constitution of the Iroquois Confederacy as a sign of peace. That's "Karandawan," he told her, "Great White Pine."
He got up to put more wood on their fire and she was spellbound by the legend which she had never heard before. He pulled her back to rest against him.
"You know what I was thinking," he said, "you should be spanked under this beautiful night sky."
"Out here? Outside? No way!"
"Why not? Look around us. This is God's country. What better place? We are here like the early settlers. Those men knew how to keep their women in line. They wouldn't take the back talk I get from you. No ma'am."
When she laughed he was certain. She was going to get it right here, right now under the August sky. He slipped a finger under her waistband at the small of her back and moved it slowly back and forth. It was his usual invitation or maybe a warning.
"No ma'am. Those men knew how to handle sass. They didn't bother to take her back to the house, either. No, they got a hold of her, pulled up all those skirts and petticoats and belted her right on the spot. Days were hard and long. No time for wasted words. You could use a little of that, by the way."
"Yes, but not out here."
He reached down, unsnapped and unzipped her jeans and slipped his warm hand down the back of her pants.
"Not here, not outside!"
"Oh, I don't know. It might be fun. All your pioneer sisters got a good strappin' from time to time and it wouldn't do you any harm, either. " He tapped his belt, "I've got everything I need right here."
She tried to get up but he had a hold on the back of her jeans
"Or, I could cut a switch from that white pine over there. Think of all the spirits of the mountain watching you getting spanked. The Great White Pine would beam with approval."
He was pulling her toward him trying to work her jeans down. She was pulling just as hard trying to get away. He will always win that tug of war and he easily pulled her across his knee as he boosted himself up to sit on the log.
"NOT OUT HERE!"
He ignored her as he tugged her pants town. "It's about time you were punished. Things are going to change around here!"
She felt the cool air on her bottom. She thought about all the animals that could see her. This was something new. His words hit home and she liked being that pioneer woman subject to her husband's punishment. She even hoped there were people out there who were watching her get the good thrashing she deserved. She didn't expect what happened next. He stood them both up. Her pants fell down to around her knees.
" I think this is how your pioneer sisters got it, my love." He had her by the upper arm and started swinging his belt, catching her on the buttocks and thighs.
"Enough! I've had enough! You will obey me!!!"
He caught her by surprise. She was half naked. Everything was stinging and he made it so real. She loved it! She skipped around trying to avoid his belt. She tried to protect herself with her free hand. Nothing worked.
"You will curb your sharp tongue!" He continued swinging his belt, "Your laziness is tiresome. You will do more to help me. I'm trying to eke out and existence for us here. What do you do all day?."
"I will, I will," she sobbed and begged and promised to do better as she hopped and twisted around.
"You'd better or I'll whip you every day until you do. Get that damned garden up and running."
He continued with his dire warnings. She wailed and pleaded and played her part well, too. They were loud, raw and freer than they'd even been indoors. Very simply, they were aroused. The emotion caught up with her and suddenly she started sobbing for real. He pulled her close and held her head against his chest. He picked up the throw they'd been sitting on and wrapped it around her waist.
"I feel it, too," he soothed her and held her close. "It's the spirit of the mountains."
He walked her back to the cabin and they settled down in front of the fire. He kissed her and told her how beautiful she was by firelight. She told him how much he excited her. They made love with great tenderness. The Tree of Peace was watching them from somewhere and gave them the blessings of the pine forest.
Down river, Mrs. Connolly was standing on her dock and plainly worried. She was sure something terrible was happening to that nice young couple. "Do you think we should call the police?" Mr. Connolly was quite amused, "Leave them alone, Muriel. Come inside and leave them alone."
The Great White Pine smiled.
© 2015 RosyPickwicket
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Views: 262 · Added: 37 days ago
Hey, guys, guess what! I finally got to take part in my first ever spanking MOVIE! WOO! I'm so happy!
If y'all are interested, the clips are available from Red Cheeks Studios, HERE: http://clips4sale.com/studio/71436
MY video is titled A Day in the Life of a Brat, but there are also a lot of other great videos available from Red Cheeks Studios. :D You guys should definitely take a look at some of 'em~ ;)
((Oh. And I'd suggest you all keep your eyes open; There are at least 2 more scenes to that movie~))
Views: 264 · Added: 37 days ago
I can't stop watching this video by Kane:
Everything about it gets me wet. I love the sharp slapping sound the belt makes against her gorgeous ass. But I especially love that, in most of Kane's videos, he takes time to give his spankee some relief with his fingers.
In this video, he fingers her for a little while, but then he leans down and possibly whispers a command for her to finger herself, because that's what she does for the rest of the video, and it's magical. We get the most beautiful view of her pussy as she touches it for the remainder of the video.
As it progresses, she humps her fingers in a way that gets me so wet, I have to pull my pants down and hump my fingers too.
The spanking in this video is my dream spanking. I wish that were me lying on that bed, letting Kane strap and finger me. I have a feeling that by the time it was over, I'd beg him to do more than finger me.
And if I may be honest, because I'm so attracted to BBW, I watch this video sometimes, wishing it was my face she was humping instead of her fingers. Yum!
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Views: 193 · Added: 37 days ago
Stripped of all the accoutrements ( the restraints,the cuffs,the canes,and other assorted toys.
Dominance and submission is very simply a man and woman attuned to their DNA.
Balance,if you prefer in one's life,so that mind,body,and soul align in harmony,and peace.
It's about a woman who finds strength in embracing her femininity,not only embracing but revelling in it.
It's about a gentlrman who is secure in his masculinity,and whose self-assuredness carries over to every part of his life.
When these two meet - the heavens explode,and beauty in its purest form rains down.
It's not a game,nor a role to be played,its not about toys.
It is the perfect alignment of two souls who ebb and flow with grace.
When LOVE and RESPECT is added to this heavenly union..
You have something every poet,and every musician has spoken ,and sung about through the ages.
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Views: 213 · Added: 37 days ago
I couldn't. I got 80% and considered changing my handle to "Shithouse Rat" to commemorate the occasion. :)
You got 80%
You failed the pschopath test!
You're not a very sociable person. You would much rather be alone in your apartment and do your own thing than have someone else around mucking everything up.
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Views: 303 · Added: 37 days ago
We never know when we are going to run face to face with loss. It may be the loss of a job, a loss of our health, the loss of a spouse's health, or the loss of a beloved pet or family member.
However, within the last week/week and a half, I have experienced a deeper loss than I have ever experienced. That being the category of "Unexpected Loss". My apologies to those people here whom I should have gone to and allowed them to be the shoulder that they offered to be. For that, I am sorry that I have been distant. But, I am not sorry that I took time for me - as I'm still suffering.
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Views: 229 · Added: 37 days ago
Now that l am older, quite old really, l look at this site, watch downloads, and feel a certain amount of envy. My own spankings have diminished with age to the point of non existent, not really a surprise but a little self indulgently sad until l realized that l have been incredibly fortunate. Since my first "adult" spanking l have been spanked on a very regular basis for over 40 years. l have met and been spanked by some wonderful people and with the exception of maybe two, have been very satisfying, for all involved, l hope. For both spankers/spankee this is a very powerful need and to have been able to live that part of one's self is very fortunate. l think back and remember the feelings of antisipation as a spanking approaches, the slight excited dread as it starts, the discomfort as it progresses and depending on the type of spanking, wishing it to stop but not stop and then the after glow and the reminder for days after, every time one sits, while already looking forward to the next spanking. So the next time l start feeling envy l will remember.......l have had a Wonderful
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Views: 310 · Added: 37 days ago
I've recently established a few new online friendships and have realized a few commonalities I want to mention. Several members have shared regret for sharing personal information with others that they later realized that those "friends", were not exactly what nor whom they represented themselves to be. I too allowed my emotions to get the better of me and shared that here on my first ever online blog post. Everyone needs to often be reminded that we are all strangers who share some common thoughts, kinks, cravings, etc., nothing more initially. Please be careful sharing personal information without properly vetting your new friend(s). Move slowly and cautiously with sincerity and care for your fellow spanking tube friends. Although some are more emotionally needy, just think beforehand and use reasonable and rational judgement while proceeding. Good luck to all and may all your dreams come true - Jeffrey
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Views: 198 · Added: 37 days ago
To everyone ultimately effected by the pending blizzard, please be careful, stay warm and safe. - Jeffrey
Views: 202 · Added: 38 days ago
Tonight we watched an action movie and ate an assortment of $30 worth of different favored beef jerky, otherwise known as man chocolate... When he came back from having a cigarette, he found me waiting for him in fishnets and my hookah. That was when we tried belting. I had been obsessing about it in my mind all day! I had never tried it before, but insanely curious about it this particular day. I was nervous about it so I tried it on him a bit to show him what I wanted him to do. It was pretty hot but it was too intense, like fire, so we switched to the paddle. I got so turned on, I was super light headed. He pulled my hair and sucked my dick a while but I started feeling over-stimulated, so I hit the shower so that I would not fainted (I may have downed my vodka too quickly) It was pretty awesome nevertheless. I got out and rubbed him with the feather wand in bed until he fell asleep. We’ve been together a long time, it seems, so I want to try another new thing with him-—it’s so fun. :]
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Views: 285 · Added: 39 days ago
We went to Spencers today and I got our first paddle. Our local adult shop doesn't have any. We used it tonight, and I enjoyed it. However, it wasn't what I expected. I thought it would be more of a burn but it feels softer than a hand spanking. Nevertheless works for our purposes, since sometimes his hands start to hurt after a while. It's pretty adorable and has squishy red hearts in the middle. I used it on him too a bit. :] But, he's not as into spanking as me. His favorite toy that I've gotten so far is the feather tickler thing because I suck giving light touches.
Also--he suggested finding a feather tickler that had very long feathers. I'm looking online for them now. Any suggestions would be appreciated! :]
Last night I showed him some of my favorite spanking videos. I had avoided doing that for a long time because I felt kinda weird or embarrassed about the spanking stuff I like to watch. He wasn't into watching other people spanking each other, but said he enjoys doing it to me (I'm so happy I got him into spanking--he's so good at it!). I also told him about this site for the first time-that I've been more active on it lately, and he was down with it. :]
Views: 248 · Added: 39 days ago
Hola, all. A moment of ok internet access ...
One lodge we stayed at was the Ana (office), Ana (dining room), and Anna show. Can't keep a good name down?
The sweet girl in the dining room of the private reserve was Rosie - maybe our Rosie, moonlighting in Ecuador?
As for hummingbirds, I'm here to tell you that those aren't boots the Booted Racquet-Tail is wearing, they are unmistakeably frilly white bloomers ...
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Views: 294 · Added: 39 days ago
Alright folks here's the deal. We have all heard about the UK Anti-porn laws that are effectively shutting down the fetish and spanking film industry over there. They are making it illegal for them to produce what they do and to share the lifestyle they love with others.
Now, I have enough sense to see that if this is not contested and won that eventually some right wing hot rod here in the states is gonna say " They did it in the UK we can do it here and with enough money and lobbying they will succeed.
There are several in the UK that are risking it all to continue to work. They need support and they need money to fight this. There is a group called BackLash in the UK that is an activist group against censorship and is helping fight this. And have no proof to back this next claim up but it is more of a belief, that if we support them then should we need it here they will support us.
so with this in mind. I have activated the Tribute button on our clips4sale.com page.
From Now till march 30th. 100% of all tributes given to True Home Discipline through their page. and 10% of all video sales will be directly donated to BackLash and to the anti-censorship lobby in the UK. Depending on response this may be extended. They need our help and need us as a community and for those making these videos an industry to support and back them. This issue does not just effect the UK or the US or anywhere else. This is an issue that effects all of us period.
Now I call to all. lets us now stand. Let us now rise. Let us now fight. This is our way of life. This is our freedoms, This is our rights.
To get to my page go to www.clips4sale.com/78445 and hit the tribute button. 100% of all the proceeds from that will be directly donated with nothing being with held as personal gain from the tributes.
Views: 404 · Added: 39 days ago
Me and the girl I am acting disciplinarian for have decided that putting her upcoming fate on this public setting would be effective.
She has had two sessions with me so far; due to the distance we usually bank the punishments until there's enough to justify a full session (usually quite severe as tears and bruising is both requested and a goal for her.)
Currently she has earned her most severe spanking yet for texting while driving and hitting another car. (Thankfully she was going very slow and there wasn't any injuries or extensive damage.) However she has already been punished for poor driving habits that have her at risk of losing her license the next time the police are involved. Which is why she needs to be reminded harshly how important it is for her to pay attention while driving. This punishment will have no set amount of strokes or safe word and she will be restrained for most of it. She will be punished until we are certain she has learned her lesson very well. Implements being used include an otk with a small paddle, followed by a restrained spanking with a larger paddle, a large strap, and if I deem it necessary the bath brush or any other implements required.
She also has another punishment pending for other slip ups that she herself requested she be held accountable for.
She will be getting an OTK spanking with all available implements for missing her medication again.
She has a bedtime due to a habitual problem of snoozing and showing up late for work, so snoozing has become a punishable offence. We agreed to 5 belt strokes for each snooze and each minute late to work as a result of snoozing. So far she is at 100 strokes for that.
She has also been on an exercise regimen and a diet (which I've been pretty forgiving with in the past. Apparently too forgiving as she not only didn't bother to do her exercises for a week strait but neglected to tell me due to forgetting she was even supposed to. (She has a Skype punishment this Sunday to help her remember which will be posted on here.) She will be getting 50 with the paddle for this failure, partly for failing to do the exercises, and partly for not telling me (as that is also part of the deal.)
Also related to the diet and exercise, it turns out she has been sneaking donuts, each time I've had to ask her how her diet was going before she would divulge the information. As a result I've decided she will get 10 hard licks with the large strap for each time which puts her at 30.
For those counting:
100 with the belt
50 with the paddle
30 with the large strap
I will update if any more need to be added.
Views: 253 · Added: 39 days ago
I was speaking with a friend about this since I do some meditation and it may be that both meditation and spanking distract the mind from other things and focus it on a specific thing (such as a repetitive mantra, in spanking or whipping it is the act itself and stimulus to the body) Meditation as well as spanking and other forms of discipline in the end calm the body for the person on the receiving end. I just asked one of the bottoms I play with how they felt after a spanking and the answer was relaxed and relieved of stress and worry.
Letting go is also part of what is similar between the two activities. In meditation thoughts come in and out of the mind and then we center ourselves back via breathing, a mantra or some other mental activity. It allows us to be an observer of our own thoughts (this is a little different to the active stimulus of being spanked). Some thoughts on this would be appreciated.
An interesting definition on Meditation from the web states:
1 : to engage in contemplation or reflection
2 : to engage in mental exercise (as concentration on one's breathing or repetition of a mantra) for the purpose of reaching a heightened level of spiritual awareness
1 : to focus one's thoughts on : reflect on or ponder over
2 : to plan or project in the mind
It might be difficult to relate to this idea if you have never meditated however in some ways I believe the activities may be linked and therefore spanking and discipline may in some ways be therapeutic. Meditation has been shown to release chemicals that make us feel good and also alter our brain wave patterns in a positive way. I know this may be a little deep, but it is one of the many things I think about as a Top.
Views: 266 · Added: 40 days ago
The day before our anniversary, my partner told me that he had gotten the leading role in a play, in which he would be making out with the entire cast. It initially sounded like he was bragging about kissing a bunch of people and having an orgy scene, but later realized he was just bragging about having a lead role. That night I had stopped talking for an hour and then went to bed crying. I had been utterly freaking out about it for the past four days, getting mini-panic attacks at work. Out of nowhere I would feel extremely hot, itching, nauseous and shaky, and my heart pounded so hard it felt like someone was punching my chest; also at times I couldn't hear anything except for a ringing in my ears, and I couldn't eat or sleep.
I have great co-workers who have been helping me through it, and a stand up partner who helps calm me down. I really don't want to be kissed after him kissing someone else, so the rehearsals are going to be hell for me. I just feel extremely uncomfortable with the whole thing. I don't want to make this his problem or to cause him any guilt or strife so I've mostly keeping it to myself. I want him to be able to do what he wants to do. Last night we made an erotic game out of a blank monopoly board I printed and had a great night full of blow jobs and spanking. ;)
I haven't had any anxiety today except for random stomach pain that I had previously with the attacks. I feel otherwise liberated from my nervousness. I may eventually get a sense of panic; I have accepted that, but I know that I can be strong especially with all the people who have my back. I guess I thought that those lips would only be for me. :/ I still don't think I'll be able to go see this play, though. I'd have to be pretty hammered.
Views: 353 · Added: 41 days ago
I have set a bunch of goal in my life and some I was able to fulfill but other I am still working on. Today I am feeling low about not meeting my expectations of myself. Do anyone think I am being too hard on myself? I am trying to be a good person but I wonder if I am being punish for being brat to my mother. I love my mother but as a child I was a terrible person to her. I hope the good thing that I have done would change my out look on my life. Right at the moment in time, I am depress and I can't stop crying. I want to improve my life but my health keep holding me down. I want to be a good nurse and good person. I want to be a helping hand but I can't even help myself.
You know me inside and out.
You know about my pain and distress,
you understand the fears of my heart.
At the cross you endured unabating agony.
You have gone before me into the darkness
And emerged in power and glory.
At this time I lean on You
I draw my strength from Your endless love
And live in Your limitless grace
Trusting in You.
In Jesus' Name
Views: 359 · Added: 41 days ago
Can anyone with SB or just a wheelchair user period suggest exercises I can do in bed or my chair? (afraid to get down on the floor because I can't really feel my feet and I've hurt them multiple times getting down) I'm really unhappy with the weight I've gained and I don't really get out much.