Ok so I get home from an extended stay away and the house is a disgusting mess! Kitchen floors have not been swept. Counters are filthy. Front room looks like a child playground. On the phone she tells me how clean she keeps things. I surprised visited her.......that ole excuse, "I was not expecting you, I was not ready does not work, apply, hell it's not even valid. Cleanliness is an ongoing process. She let her children make a mess and they see it.....not a good look. How would some of you handle this? I want to hear what you think? She has been out of work and says this makes her depressed.....blah blah.....I'm not buying it because every time I speak to her on the phone she is bubbly to hear me.....and she lied about how clean everything is......papers everywhere, etc. I've said enough. Again, what do you all think?