Thoughts inspired by Choose a Number
Maybe it's just me, but I like a bit of a personal connection between the domme and her submissive. This video seemed even less intimate than having a hygienist clean your teeth. If getting a spanking were like getting a haircut I see this domme as working at a spanking shop, not a high end spanking boutique but a shop nearer the bus station, “3 floggers. No waiting."
She seems to have no personal connection with the guy she spanks. I can't tell much about his sense of connection. That sense of connection may not be important to some spankees, just as a personal connection with a barber is not important for all men. Women, by the way, seem to connect much more closely with their hairdresser than men with their stylist. I would not be surprised if a personal connection to the spanker is more important for a woman than for a man.
The recipient in Choose a Number is shackled, ass well presented for a spanking. Though why pull shorts such a short ways down? Nothing wrong with applying leather to thighs as wall as ass. The merciless domme has good instruments available and uses a nice range of them. His rear does get well reddened, he moans and cries out very satisfyingly, so he may be pleased with his experience. But this is not the style of spanking I would seek.